Lebanese ... how long does it take ...?

I really like Gebran Khalil Gebran's saying that if we didn't fall in love in a sec, we couldn't fall in love in a lifetime but he diferentiates between "7ob" & "Ma7abba".. the second one takes a lifetime ... as 4 love at first sight, why not? if it happened that u fell in love from the first sight that doesn't mean that it's not guna work out... however, sometimes it doesn't work out cause ur heart blinds ur brain from the other person's faults since u didn't have the time 2 discover his real personality before u fell in love with him & we all know that love blinds us in so many ways so we fall & wake up the moment we get hurt (the moment we start 2 see that person cognitively) ....so love at first sight is not as easy as u may think....