The Word of God vs ual Feelings?

So basically, the whole Word of God is symbolic for us? If you follow the lust of your flesh and fullfil it, thats symbolic for the spirit of darkness, which was shown to Eve when Satan tempted her. (i believe she defiled her body with his snake-like thoughts) and shared it with Adam, as he was seduced as well, causing his to twitch in his shame. So since we listened to the women, men's curse is to til the earth and sweat for food, and women are cursed to suffer during pregnancy as they focus on their (ya know) what's been defiled. So if we all focus on what have been defiled (our pride/flesh), we become guilty and girly for what we've done or been thru. As our trust in Jesus, we move on and focus on our spirit which has been bought at the cross to come to God. So christians, tightened up and dont feel so bad on yourselves on what Jesus did for us. Life is very much a min-game for us all....make it count in the end. Hell isnt just a place of torture, but shame and sadness for our sins. Heaven is a place of people who are real with themselves on earth. What do sum of think?